That's the thing people don't think they hurt as their meant to be a friend but are they really thinking like that and just saying its a joke as they think they can get away with it?
Remember when I was 13 gay jokes and jokes about being Jewish were said to hurt as that's what it was like then. Yes now days people accept a lot more but it takes me back to being 13 and being bullied at school.
That's the problem with them jokes as you don't know what the persons actually been through.
This is why I no longer speak to any of the people I knew when I was a teenager.
Plus not everyone can take a joke and they can react badly to one, anyone remember Lightwater
. I also remember the moaning on here after the Norfolk live years ago. So no even jokes to a persons face are sometimes not on as they can be taken as insult and even meant as one. It's so easy to say only joking or put a smiley face at the end of an insult. Sorry that does not make it ok.
I'm not saying dont joke but I don't think they should ever be made personal.
There's a very thin line between piss taking and joking.
Also hate it when people say your wrong just for not agreeing with them. Then you get accused of moaning just because you don't think certain things are the best in the world. Sorry that I don't agree with everything people say be it in real life or on here, we are allowed our own views and I will voice mine even if its differently to 100 people.