What I mean is that people are aware of the 'best' films because of the status they're given as the 'best' films, which means a LOT of other films get ignored or lost in the shadows of the well known 'greats'. What I mean by thinking outside the box is trying to find films that you didn't even know existed, because there are literally thousands and thousands of films out there, a very large proportion of which get forgotten about because they don't have this status of being liked all round.
I'm not condemning anyone for liking any film, like I said, it's each to their own. But when someone proclaims themselves as a film lover and then posts a list that looks like it's been copied and pasted from IMDB's top 250, one has to question just how deep that love goes. Film is absolutely wonderful in my opinion, and part of what I love about film is searching and watching films I didn't know existed only to find that I fall in love with them.
And also, I don't watch 'weird' films just for the sake of it. I do it because it offers something different to the same formula you get with the top well known and loved films. You get different narratives, different subject matters, different cultures, different endings. Sure, it feels a bit weird when you watch a film for the first time and it doesn't end in complete and satisfying resolution as many of the top IMDB 250 do, but I find once you get out of that zone of discomfort these films offer a lot more in the way of thought and emotion than most of the 'top' films can.
Just last night I watched Grave of the Fireflies, a Ghibli film. Now, Ghibli is probably the most well-known foreign animation studio to us Westerners, and therefore holds some familiarity with those of us who have seen Spirited Away, for example. What shocked me about this film is that because Western animation is dominated by Disney, we can't help but associate animation with children's films, so when you get an animated film that tackles such subject matter as Grave of the Fireflies, I found it to be quite a shock to the system and that made the film have a huge impact on me (and I really recommend it, it's beautifully sad). But, you see what I'm trying to say, it's something a bit different, that I wasn't expecting or used to, and this added to my enjoyment of the film.
Saying all this, I still enjoy a cheesy blockbuster or chick flick as much as the next person (I love Pearl Harbour, for example). So I think the point I'm trying to make is that if you really do love film, then it is important to explore as much of it as you can, as opposed to just watching films a list on the internet tells you are the best of the best.