Extreme examples of M&Ds aside, surely this applies to parks as well, no? Sticking a couple of RMCs on a car park was more likely to attract me over the last few years than the best themed park in the world.
So grass roots music isn't important? Interesting. Whilst I know some artists / bands are plants, I didn't think it was all of them, and I'd always thought the opposite, that supporting grassroots music was important. It's the main reason I would go to gigs of bands I don't know / never heard of, that and the hope of possibly finding somebody I like. Probably saved me some money there, I've only ever ended up following one new to me artist I saw in a grass roots venue. (Well two, if you include BBC introducing tents in that. I tend to think of that as similar to plants though, if the BBC have picked you up already, you've good as made it.)
First part is unnecessary, you don't have to explain / justify anything. The tone of that makes me fear I've caused offence with my analogy. That analogy was just something I thought you'd relate to, that's all, no offence intended. The same way I use pubs, a lot, as an analogy. Nor do you have to justify how you want to spend your own money. That was never my intention, to make anybody feel like that, and I feel bad now if that's what you think I was doing. My intention was just to highlight the plight of parks at the moment, and suggest anybody that can do, and actually 'wants' to, to visit more of them sooner rather than later. Originally to maybe 'gamify' it, but only for those who wanted to take part.
As I said before, you do you. And what you said, earlier in your reply about music, applies here too. What people will want, and what people value in parks, will vary from person to person. If you don't want to spend money on smaller UK parks, and aren't bothered if they survive or not, then don't. But if you want to see them survive, and be here in the future, then now's the time to support them more than ever, if you can (and want to!) Ultimately, that's the point here.
I want to say again, genuinely sorry if I caused any offence, that wasn't my intention, especially if you thought I was bringing personal circumstances into things with the intention to cause offence, as your reply suggests. I wasn't, it was just something I thought you'd relate to. And also, something I feel the same way about, having supported grass roots bands / venues in the past, on the basis of being told it's good for music to do that. So from my perspective, I see this as being very similar, if not the same thing.
No, no offense taken! Just didn't think your analogy worked

A 'take home' media equivalent is not the same for theme parks. People don't listen to rides at home and grow attached to them in that way, thus changing their enjoyment of a ride. So it's just not a valid analogy. There's way too many other personal factors when it comes to enjoyment of live music.
I will say, it felt a little bit like you were implying my band were the musical equivalent of M+Ds, ie: "where would I be if people stopped supporting my band like a small park?"
When fans buy a ticket to our show, they're not generously donating to my band, they pay to come see us because they like the albums we make and like the show we worked years to develop. The show is the thing the fans want and we work to deliver that. Tbh, we have invested and grown in the band in ways that crappy small UK parks havent

As an aside, we have been played on BBC radio one countless times, and Ive been interviewed on BBC...it doesn't mean you've made it. At all. How things look from the outside of the music industry is not how things really are.
I guess what I'm trying to say here is, as someone who doesn't work in a pub, I probably wouldn't use that as an analogy when talking to you. Because all I would know about it is how I see it from the outside.
As stated in my original post, I appreciate the generousity of wanting to support smaller parks. I guess my main question is: why? Does it really matter if we lose parks that aren't good?
I'm going to put a smiley face here to indicate the entire tone of this discussion for clarity

I'm enjoying the debate! No offense taken!