LiveForTheLaunch said:
^ LOL so you think the family members and friends find it acceptable to crack jokes a month or two after it has happened? Very logical.
Putting it very plainly... This topic is about making jokes of dead celebrities. Not family members. As Ben has said, there is a vast difference and negatives, as well as positives are inevitable in the world of celebrities.
And when did I EVER say anything at all, whatsoever, about family members, anywhere in my post... I DIDN'T!
I was talking about the fact that people forget that even fans sometimes get upset by the jokes and therefore I wish people would hold off on the jokes. What I also realise (and is exactly what I was saying) is that for a great many, their way of dealing is to make humour of the situation. Therefore, the jokes and comments which were constantly made during the celebs lifetime will, of course, continue long after they are gone.
I wouldn't expect you to understand that capacity in anyway. Grieving does not just mean breaking down into tears you know!
Considering this, I do know people who make light humour in tough situations (including deaths). It is their way of coping with the feelings. Which, if that is their way of dealing, neither you, nor anybody else can deny them.
Furthermore, none of the jokes are actually taking the mickey out of death directly. They are more taking the mickey out of situations that were funny in their lifetime. How many times, upon reflection do you laugh about things in the past? We all do it, regardless of whether that person is living or not. You look back at a stupid situation where the person did something daft and laugh. There is no crime in that and it is certainly not disrespecting the fact they are dead either!
For instance, one of the MJ jokes is relevant to his plastic surgery, this is not deniable and the amount of surgery he had in his lifetime is ridiculous, therefore, telling a joke about it after his death is doing nothing but merely making humour of his bad choices back then.
Do you honestly think that at some point in time (if not already) the Jackson family won't all sit around and laugh about the dumbass things Michael did in his lifetime...? Funny enough, I believe that even in his memorial there were some laughs about some of the things he had said or done! Which therefore is the basis for a joke.
Its called making light of a terribly bad situation. Which, as I said before, you clearly do not have the capacity to understand!