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The One?

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After watching 500 Days of Summer, I was wondering if there really is a one person for everyone, and how many people actually believe in the concept of "the One".

Personally I haven't actually decided yet.. I think there are obviously many people out there that each person is compatible with, so I'm not exactly sure how there could just be a "the one".. But who knows?

So is "the One" real, or not?
 
Some people have their own lives to decide who can be "The One". For some people it doesn't take long, but for others it takes years. Basically it depends on the person, and their definition of "The One'. Personally I think there is, but only I'll actually know when.
 
I think people make someone 'The One', if that makes sense.

Having said that, I guess that does mean there is 'The One'.

I'm undecided. I think it's down to the person, as well as the partner.
 
No, because like what Tim Minchin said "If I didn't have you, I'd have someone else"
 
I certainly hope there isn't "The One" because if so, the person who I considered my "one" is not really a part of my life anymore! (Much to my disappointment!)
 
Dave said:
No, because like what Tim Minchin said "If I didn't have you, I'd have someone else"

Is it not "If I didn't have you, someone else would do". I'm just being pedantic.


I'm undecided.
 
I certainly hope there isn't "The One" because if so, the person who I considered my "one" is not really a part of my life anymore! (Much to my disappointment!)

But then, they couldn't be your one, because if it WAS your one, you would have married and spent your life with them. The whole concept of the one is that it's the one person out there for you that is like the perfect match I guess.
 
Nah, you find who you want to find. Your life can take many different turns, and its all your influence, its not fate, so you end up influencing who you meet, and ultimately who becomes 'the one'.
 
It's not so much as "The One" but more as people you are "compatible" with. There are tons of people out there. Many fish in the sea! Each one is different in many ways, and you could fall in love with any one in their own special way.
People get the view of "The One" when the meet someone special. They are so filled up love that they view that person in a whole different light. (Which is actually a very good thing. Unless they break up with you. ;) )
 
Silly for me to answer, seeing as though the last 5 years have been utter failings in the attracting-females section....

Nevertheless, I believe that there are more than just 'the one', as they say, "Wow, you're one in a million!"

But using simple maths, we can see that there are 6,792 'the one's for each of us, thus, answering the question with my answer of:

Undecided.
 
^I don't think you can go on "last-5-years-experience" when you're 16. Its probably more to do with the fact that you don't fully understand relationships instead of the person being wrong for you. Hell, I got back together with a girl I 'went out with' in Yr. 7. It didn't last more than two weeks then, but it had almost six months this time. It all went tits up when she had to move to York with her Dads work.

That's beside the point, what I mean is that I don't think you can count failed relationships under about 16... possibly older... it just doesn't work like that.
 
what I mean is that I don't think you can count failed relationships under about 16... possibly older... it just doesn't work like that.

Sure you can.. I know quite a few girls at my school actually who were dating their boyfriends from about grade eight (so like, 13 years old) until the present, and they're now in grade eleven. And that's not even just one couple, it's quite a few, and I think if you're dating a year or two years, even under the age of 16, you can still call it a failed relationship.. Some adults don't even last two years in a relationship.
 
There are over 6 billion people on this planet. Everyone has a perfect match.. but 99% chance you'll never find it.

I settle for the one who makes me the happiest.. and I've found her for right now. :)
 
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Nope! I'm happy with my string of failed relationships thanks! Always their fault of course.
 
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